Elder Care in New York

Step-by-step guides and toolkits for adult children caring for aging parents in New York, United States.

New York Guides

Hospital-to-Home in New York: Discharge, Rehab & SNF Transitions

Complete Hospital-to-Home in New York: Discharge, Rehab & SNF Transitions with step-by-step instructions, checklists, and templates

New York Dementia & Memory Care Guide: Programs, Costs & Medicaid

Complete New York Dementia & Memory Care Guide: Programs, Costs & Medicaid with step-by-step instructions, checklists, and templates

Choosing Care in New York: Home Care, Assisted Living & Nursing Homes

Complete Choosing Care in New York: Home Care, Assisted Living & Nursing Homes with step-by-step instructions, checklists, and templates

New York Power of Attorney & Guardianship Kit for Aging Parents

Complete New York Power of Attorney & Guardianship Kit for Aging Parents with step-by-step instructions, checklists, and templates

New York Medicaid Long-Term Care & Asset Protection Guide

Complete New York Medicaid Long-Term Care & Asset Protection Guide with step-by-step instructions, checklists, and templates

Aging in Place in New York: Home Care, Waivers & Support Guide

Complete Aging in Place in New York: Home Care, Waivers & Support Guide with step-by-step instructions, checklists, and templates

General Resources

These guides work no matter where you live:

The Caregiver's Emergency Preparedness Kit

Complete The Caregiver's Emergency Preparedness Kit with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

Recognizing When a Parent Needs Help: Warning Signs Checklist

Complete Recognizing When a Parent Needs Help: Warning Signs Checklist with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

The Assisted Living Tour Checklist and Comparison Kit

Complete The Assisted Living Tour Checklist and Comparison Kit with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

The Rehab and Recovery at Home Toolkit

Complete The Rehab and Recovery at Home Toolkit with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

End-of-Life Conversations and Advance Care Planning

Complete End-of-Life Conversations and Advance Care Planning with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

Preventing Hospital Readmissions

Complete Preventing Hospital Readmissions with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

The Aging Parent Care Starter Kit

Complete The Aging Parent Care Starter Kit with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

The Respite Care Planning Workbook

Complete The Respite Care Planning Workbook with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

Managing a Parent's Medications Safely

Complete Managing a Parent's Medications Safely with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

Nutrition and Meal Planning for Aging Parents

Complete Nutrition and Meal Planning for Aging Parents with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

The Incontinence Care and Dignity Toolkit

Complete The Incontinence Care and Dignity Toolkit with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

Downsizing a Parent's Home: A Compassionate Guide

Complete Downsizing a Parent's Home: A Compassionate Guide with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

Organizing a Parent's Important Documents

Complete Organizing a Parent's Important Documents with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

The Long-Distance Caregiving Playbook

Complete The Long-Distance Caregiving Playbook with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

Managing a Parent's Finances: A Practical Handbook

Complete Managing a Parent's Finances: A Practical Handbook with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

Managing Vision and Hearing Loss in Aging Parents

Complete Managing Vision and Hearing Loss in Aging Parents with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

Coordinating Care After a Stroke

Complete Coordinating Care After a Stroke with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

The Caregiver's Budget and Cost-of-Care Planner

Complete The Caregiver's Budget and Cost-of-Care Planner with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

The Adult Day Care Selection Guide

Complete The Adult Day Care Selection Guide with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

Managing Incapacity: What to Do When a Parent Can't Decide

Complete Managing Incapacity: What to Do When a Parent Can't Decide with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

Handling a Parent's Resistance to Bathing and Hygiene

Complete Handling a Parent's Resistance to Bathing and Hygiene with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

Caregiver Self-Care and Respite Planning Guide

Complete Caregiver Self-Care and Respite Planning Guide with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

Navigating Guilt and Resentment as a Caregiver

Complete Navigating Guilt and Resentment as a Caregiver with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

Transportation Solutions for Non-Driving Parents

Complete Transportation Solutions for Non-Driving Parents with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

Moving a Parent In With You: The Complete Guide

Complete Moving a Parent In With You: The Complete Guide with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

Managing Sundowning and Nighttime Agitation

Complete Managing Sundowning and Nighttime Agitation with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

Social Isolation and Loneliness Prevention Plan

Complete Social Isolation and Loneliness Prevention Plan with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

Memory Care vs Assisted Living: Choosing the Right Fit

Complete Memory Care vs Assisted Living: Choosing the Right Fit with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

Caring for a Parent With Diabetes at Home

Complete Caring for a Parent With Diabetes at Home with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

The Grandchild's Guide to Helping With Grandparents

Complete The Grandchild's Guide to Helping With Grandparents with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

The Hospital Stay Survival Guide for Families

Complete The Hospital Stay Survival Guide for Families with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

Understanding Dementia Stages: A Family Roadmap

Complete Understanding Dementia Stages: A Family Roadmap with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

Taking Away the Car Keys: A Step-by-Step Guide

Complete Taking Away the Car Keys: A Step-by-Step Guide with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

Building a Care Team: Coordinating Doctors, Aides and Family

Complete Building a Care Team: Coordinating Doctors, Aides and Family with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

Wandering Prevention and Safe Return Planning

Complete Wandering Prevention and Safe Return Planning with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

The Family Care Meeting Facilitation Kit

Complete The Family Care Meeting Facilitation Kit with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

Working While Caregiving: Employer Rights and Leave

Complete Working While Caregiving: Employer Rights and Leave with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

When a Parent Refuses Help: Strategies That Work

Complete When a Parent Refuses Help: Strategies That Work with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

Bathing, Dressing and Personal Care Techniques

Complete Bathing, Dressing and Personal Care Techniques with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

Sibling Conflict Over a Parent's Care: A Resolution Guide

Complete Sibling Conflict Over a Parent's Care: A Resolution Guide with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

The Caregiver's Guide to Doctor Communication

Complete The Caregiver's Guide to Doctor Communication with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

Understanding and Managing Polypharmacy

Complete Understanding and Managing Polypharmacy with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

The Blended Family Caregiving Guide

Complete The Blended Family Caregiving Guide with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

Caring for Two: The Sandwich Generation Survival Kit

Complete Caring for Two: The Sandwich Generation Survival Kit with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

Caring for a Parent With Parkinson's

Complete Caring for a Parent With Parkinson's with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

The Scam and Fraud Shield for Aging Parents

Complete The Scam and Fraud Shield for Aging Parents with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

Technology for Aging in Place: Devices and Monitoring

Complete Technology for Aging in Place: Devices and Monitoring with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

Preventing and Spotting Elder Depression

Complete Preventing and Spotting Elder Depression with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

Veterans' Benefits for Elder Care (Aid and Attendance)

Complete Veterans' Benefits for Elder Care (Aid and Attendance) with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

When to Call 911 vs the Doctor: A Caregiver's Guide

Complete When to Call 911 vs the Doctor: A Caregiver's Guide with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

The Elder Financial Abuse Protection Toolkit

Complete The Elder Financial Abuse Protection Toolkit with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

Getting Paid to Care for a Family Member

Complete Getting Paid to Care for a Family Member with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

The Home Safety and Fall Prevention Audit

Complete The Home Safety and Fall Prevention Audit with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

Creating a Dementia-Friendly Home

Complete Creating a Dementia-Friendly Home with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

The Caregiver's Legal and Financial Binder

Complete The Caregiver's Legal and Financial Binder with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

Managing Chronic Pain in Older Adults

Complete Managing Chronic Pain in Older Adults with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

The Family Caregiver Burnout Recovery Guide

Complete The Family Caregiver Burnout Recovery Guide with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

Managing a Parent's Digital Life and Passwords

Complete Managing a Parent's Digital Life and Passwords with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

The Medical Alert Systems Buying Guide

Complete The Medical Alert Systems Buying Guide with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

Splitting Care Costs Fairly Among Siblings

Complete Splitting Care Costs Fairly Among Siblings with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

Difficult Conversation Scripts: Talking to Parents About Care

Complete Difficult Conversation Scripts: Talking to Parents About Care with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

Clearing Out the Family Home: Sorting and Selling Toolkit

Complete Clearing Out the Family Home: Sorting and Selling Toolkit with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

Hospice vs Palliative Care: A Family Decision Guide

Complete Hospice vs Palliative Care: A Family Decision Guide with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

The Caregiver's Medical Appointment Companion

Complete The Caregiver's Medical Appointment Companion with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

The Nursing Home Selection and Quality Checklist

Complete The Nursing Home Selection and Quality Checklist with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

Hiring a Home Caregiver: Interview and Vetting Toolkit

Complete Hiring a Home Caregiver: Interview and Vetting Toolkit with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

Advocating for a Parent in the Healthcare System

Complete Advocating for a Parent in the Healthcare System with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

Understanding Long-Term Care Insurance

Complete Understanding Long-Term Care Insurance with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

The Dementia Communication Toolkit: What to Say and How

Complete The Dementia Communication Toolkit: What to Say and How with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

The Mobility Aids and Equipment Selection Guide

Complete The Mobility Aids and Equipment Selection Guide with templates, checklists, and step-by-step guidance

Articles for New York

Dementia Home Care in New York

How to arrange Medicaid-funded home care for a parent with dementia in New York, including the 2-ADL exception, CDPAP, and MLTC dementia programs.